Robbie Williams has opened up about the hurt he feels when rumors about his sexuality surface. The pop sensation, who’s happily married to actress Ayda Field for 14 years, has battled unfounded claims about his love life for years. Despite the constant speculation, Robbie insists that stories about him being secretly gay are simply false.
The 2004 Gay Lover Rumors and Legal Action
The 50-year-old former Take That star, who rose to fame in the 90s, faced shocking rumors in 2004. Speculation spread that he had a “secret gay lover,” prompting Robbie to take legal action. He sued for libel and won the case, putting an end to the damaging accusations. Looking back on the ordeal, Robbie admitted that the rumors didn’t just annoy him—they genuinely made him sad.
Robbie Reflects on His Reaction to the Speculation
In a candid new interview promoting his upcoming biopic, Robbie shared how it made him feel: “I was annoyed. I was more sad. Not about gay accusations, because, look, I’ve done everything but suck a c**k,” he said with his signature bluntness. “Honestly, you’ve never met somebody who wants to be gay as much as me.”
Football Analogy: Why the Rumors Are So Frustrating
Robbie went on to use a football analogy to explain how frustrating it is to have rumors like this spread. He compared it to someone telling him he supported Liverpool when he’s always backed Port Vale. “I’m a Port Vale fan,” he said. “When somebody says you’re a Liverpool fan a hundred times, it’s like, ‘I’m not a f***ing Liverpool fan; why do people think I’m a Liverpool fan?’”
Balancing Allyship with Authenticity
He also touched on the need to protect his own identity while showing support for the LGBTQ+ community. “You want to be an ally while protecting your own authenticity and your own life,” he said. Robbie has always been unapologetically himself, and when it comes to his sexuality, he doesn’t mince words. “If I want to suck a ck, I’ll suck a ck. Who’s going to f****ing stop me? My wife? The beard!” he quipped, referring to the slang term for someone used to cover up another person’s sexual orientation.
The History of ‘Bearding’ in Hollywood
Though Robbie clearly isn’t bothered by the rumors anymore, his comments shed light on the history of “bearding” in Hollywood, where stars use relationships with the opposite sex to deflect rumors about their sexual preferences.. This practice dates back to the 1920s when studios imposed morality clauses on actors.
Family Life: Robbie and Ayda’s Happy Marriage
Robbie has been married to Ayda Field for over a decade, and together they have four children—Teddy, 11, Charlie, 9, Coco, 5, and Beau, 4. Their marriage has been going strong, and Robbie’s openness about his sexuality has never seemed to affect their bond. In fact, the couple recently celebrated their love by renewing their vows after a delay caused by the pandemic.
Robbie’s Connection to the LGBTQ+ Community
Back in 2016, Robbie made headlines for his comments on his connection to the LGBTQ+ community. In an interview with Attitude, he explained how he felt embraced by the LGBTQ+ crowd, especially after performing in gay clubs during his youth. “I was raised in a society where gay was the thing you leveled at somebody you wanted to hurt the most,” he reflected. “So then being exposed to this world that I loved being a part of… I took my first ecstasy at a gay club and had the most incredible time.”
Coming to Terms with His Own Sexuality
He also discussed his evolving understanding of his own sexuality. As a young man in his early twenties, he found himself questioning whether being comfortable around gay people meant he was gay himself. “I was 21 or 22, and I was like, ‘Oh, that must mean I’m somewhat gay, in some sort of way,’” he said. It was a revelation that marked a turning point in his life, challenging him to break free from societal norms.
Robbie and Ayda’s Vow Renewal
In a heartfelt Instagram post, Robbie shared his gratitude after renewing his wedding vows with Ayda. “Oh, Me and Ayda renewed our vows. I am very, very very grateful,” he wrote. “I’m grateful right now. I’m not in the future, tired and stressed but I’m right here right now grateful.”
Robbie’s Message: No More Rumors
Together, Robbie and Ayda have shown the world that love, authenticity, and mutual respect are the foundations of a lasting relationship. Robbie’s thoughts on sexuality, loyalty, and his commitment to his family reveal a man who is comfortable in his own skin—no matter what the rumors say.
So, as for those pesky rumors about Robbie Williams being secretly gay? Well, he’s had enough. He’s ready to live life on his terms, and if anyone still wants to talk, they can go ahead. But Robbie’s message is clear: he’s been through it all, and he knows who he is. It’s time to stop speculating.
